tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28854422.post5460820451335653133..comments2023-06-04T01:42:33.756-07:00Comments on chocolate and whine: Round 1Stephanie Harshhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15502947272568502626noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28854422.post-37586663098717552782011-01-10T15:31:53.000-08:002011-01-10T15:31:53.000-08:00Good for you babe, good for you. It may have felt...Good for you babe, good for you. It may have felt silly at the time but there's no shame in going back to his door, giving it a good think, then leaving. Nothing wrong at all with that. Also, they will always blame you, it's the weak thing to do. It's called blame shifting and it happens just about every time. People don't like to admit to failure and it's just so much easier to blame the other person for it. It takes two. To both ,ake it and break it, it ALWAYS takes two. Personaly responsibility, no one is willing to take it anymore.My ex husband was sleeping with his best friend's fiancée. I left him. He tried to blame it on me. I was at a loss. Seriously, just expect it.MichelleSGnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28854422.post-47412192475555711802011-01-10T16:07:57.000-08:002011-01-10T16:07:57.000-08:00Holy crap dude.Did the new blog open up a floodgat...Holy crap dude.Did the new blog open up a floodgate or what? Good for you.Nice to see you back and glad to hear you're still backing and forthing with kicking your husband to the curb. Keeps my head exploding.oceandoggynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28854422.post-28863912292906980042011-01-11T04:47:53.000-08:002011-01-11T04:47:53.000-08:00I think it is easier for him to blame you than rea...I think it is easier for him to blame you than realize that maybe you are stronger than he thought you were.Debbie Wnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28854422.post-20448500765677041072011-01-17T12:27:18.000-08:002011-01-17T12:27:18.000-08:00Until you can say to him, "Yup! I'm the ...Until you can say to him, "Yup! I'm the bad guy all right. Everything was my fault and I'm giving up on us because that's just the kind of quitter I am," he's got you on the hook for more "discussion." You are not going to get him to acknowledge his role, and be grateful that the law allows you to leave regardless.Also, I love you and I'm glad you're back. :DJennoreply@blogger.com